Yesterday took Bus 190 back home… Was sitting at the last row, behind a around 60+ Ah Pek… He was sitting with his leg wide open, and at the next bus stop, a lady wanted to sit next time him, but due to his “opened legs” she could only managed to sit half of the seat… So she spotted another seat on the next aisle (window seat somemore) she quickly swap before someone else take it…

Then a man who was sitting at the front (opposite facing direction seats) decided to take over the lady’s place… The Ah Pek decided to close his legs… Wah lau, so it meant that he purposely kept his legs wide open for other purposes lah…

Irritating lor, I see liao so unhappy… Abusing the fact that you are an old man, ladies try to understand that “Man also undergo Menopause” but now it’s obvious that he is trying to see if he can get any cheap thrills anot… RAH~!~!

So being protective of yourselves (ladies) on buses / trains / public transports is very important… There was once in a very crowded train, while an uncle was alighting his whole arm brush against the side of my body and I feel outraged and I had to think it is due to the crowded condition…. Haiz, angry but helpless…

Recently during the Taipei trip, I realised that they have Ladies Only cabins during late nights trains… and Japan also have Ladies Only cabins during peak hours…

So now I clutched my bag to my body as close as possible, and left a gap between the ppl around me, cos it is weird to stick so close to strangers even though it might be a female…

Did a quiz, and I turned out to be...

Flirt-Shy
Your coyness around the male species could be misinterpreted as aloofness, so you've got to learn to conquer it and work on your flirting skills. Flirting is in fact one of the best ways to signal your interest in making friends with the opposite sex. If you close yourself off in social interactions, you'll be missing out on opportunities of finding your Mr. Right.

First ask yourself why you avoid flirting: Maybe you don't feel attractive or confident enough. Or perhaps you don't feel comfortable with your sensuality. But the only way you'll overcome your anxiety when socializing with the guys is to practice, practice, practice. Start by learning a few simple flirting tactics. One surefire technique is to work your smile: Immediately you'll appear less intimidating. Another easy way to open up is to start dishing out sincere compliments, like "Cool jacket" or "You have a really nice smile". Practice a little more, and you'll realize how fun it can be.

So I read on on suggestions on How To Flirt Like A Natural

* 1. Work on your self-confidence.
Flirting is an art requiring confidence. If you're not exactly comfortable in your own skin, start working on your self-confidence: Who's going to believe you're sexy if you don't believe it?

* 2. Keep smiling!
Let the smile come forth naturally. Don't manufacture one because others can tell.

* 3. Catch His Eye.
Once you've identified that cute guy, catch his eye and smile. Walk up to him until about an arm's length distance away, then start a conversation. Don't just talk away, make sure he's looking at you and is aware of your presence.

* 4. Give Compliments.
Compliment him on his clothes, or sense of humor. Saying "Hey, you've got a great jacket, where did you buy it?" makes him think that you are noticing things about him, and your attention is flattering.

* 5. Keep Your Body Language Open.
Look at him when talking but don't stare. When you're telling an anecdote, lightly touch his arm when you're about to reveal the climax of the story, as if you're making a point. Like "And you know what happened after that?" Touch the arm. "He actually flew to London to meet her!"

* 6. Listen With Interest.
When he's talking, listen with interest. Sound like you're paying attention by adding "Hmmm..." or "Yeah..." at appropriate intervals and tilt your head to the side slightly.

* 7. Be Positive & Engaging.
Keep your conversation light-hearted and humorous. Don't gossip negative stuff about a mutual friend. You don't want him to think you're a big blabbermouth.

* 8. Make Your Move.
When the conversation is coming to an end, and you decide you'll like to stay in touch, don't be afraid to leave your number with him. In fact, guys will be more responsive because they will think you are one hot chick who's available!

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Haha, went Gym again this weekend...

Did 5 rounds of running + 1 round of walking on treadmill on Saturday 13 Oct 2007
Total distance on Treadmill: 2.4km

Did 7 rounds of running + 1 round of walking on treadmill + additional 1km of walking on treadmill on Sunday 14 Oct 2007
Total distance on Treadmill: 4.2km

Tml, 15 Oct 2007 should be going for another gym session... LoL...

Did 5 rounds of running + 1 round of walking on treadmill on Monday 15 Oct 2007
Total distance on Treadmill: 2.4km

And I'm happy that I did 3.26km in 30mins... LoL... hopefully tml I can still walk properly and go for my gym with cousin...

Unfortunately, accidents happened... This time it was so near me...


It was about 12+ in the afternoon, busy doing work at my desk... Then suddenly heard a loud crumbling crash at the Construction Site opposite us...

At first thought it was nothing serious, maybe it was just a wrong disposition of debris... Then saw 2 workers run from the shop-house beside to close the construction gate, I thought it was due to the dust that has appeared after the crash...

Soon, SCDF came... Then I thought maybe someone complained about the dust / noise etc...

So came 1pm, then we went for our lunch... When we are back at 2pm... saw police cordoning off the area... We knew something serious had happened...

We found out that it was a slab (25 sq.m) that fell 17th storey and killed a 53year old excavator operator (Mr. Chew Chee Mee)...

It took 10hours before they managed to find him...

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What was most fortunate about this accident; it was break time for the workers, else there could be more casualties...

May Mr. Chew find peace.... RIP...

I did a personality test on and I am a 金丝猴

知性外表下有颗坚强的心。
金丝猴具有大智慧，非常聪明，所以这类型的人大多理性又有才华，自信的你就算有再大的成就也不会骄傲，虽然从内心来说，也很希望得到他人的赞赏，但却表现得很沉稳，一副宠辱不惊的样子，你一旦遇到自己喜欢的事就会大把大把投入时间和精力，甚至有可能到废寝忘食的地步哦！
hmmm, me 大多理性又有才华meh? LoL, don’t really think so lah… but if 遇到自己喜欢的事就会大把大把投入时间和精力, this is a spot on…


如何排除人际烦恼
你虽然不会主动攻击别人，但却蛮喜欢和别人抬杠！当你与人争论时，总是一副理直气壮的样子，让对手无法招架，对人际关系也有一定的影响，注意一下你的语调，口气不要太严厉了。
Haha, correct… I like to have “suan” friends at times, but definitely harmless…


对异性的态度
你在感情上是相当自我的人，表面上对恋人百依百顺，其实却很有自己的想法和原则，你讨厌被恋人命令和束缚，一旦分歧过大，你便会主动提出分手。
Haha, who likes to be 命令和束缚… Well, it certainly has to depend on situation bah…


职业预测
你是最佳的配合者，比较适合做经理助理、经纪人等。
Haha, my work position is Project Secretary so I have to 配合 with the whole team… this is quite accurate too…

是否曾经因为习惯彼此在一起的感觉而继续恋爱着。

仔细聆听那首熟悉的歌词和旋律，想起曾经那是我们的歌， 我们决定分手的歌。

《孙耀威 － 习惯》
“你说爱我只是习惯 再也不是喜欢 我和你之间隔着一道墙 如果爱终究要被遗忘 没有你我会慢慢习惯”

没了那鼓奋不顾身的爱，只是习惯了有你在身边。

不再期待，不给承诺，仍然很幸福的被你爱过。

我们回到当初的朋友关系都比较快乐。

Come 05-09-2008 and my best friend is finally getting married… Haha… But instead I will be helping out at the 姐妹 side…

But before that must 减肥成功 first… still as fat as before, or worse fatter than before… LoL…

Have been jogging almost weekly for the past 1 year but no use, because I think me and cousin never control diet… so now for wanting to be a beautiful bridesmaid, I must control diet and maybe jog more than once a week liao... Hehe…

I went gym with cousin on Saturday, dunno what happen suddenly jog continuously for 2.4km before walking another 0.5 on the treadmill… LoL… but that night I have a piece of prata for supper… LoL… but I dun usually take supper lah…

Then Sun, actually suppose to meet cousin go jogging again, but when I wakie at 2pm, I was kinda lazy to go her house / gym… then at around 5pm I felt the urge to go jogging… then due to some unseen forces I decided to go jogging alone at 6pm… I walk to Blk 202’s park (which is about 2 feeder-bus stop away) then jog for about 3 rounds, think only around 1km… then I walk back home while perspiring like a pig… LoL…

Today, me going gym with cousin again, we are thinking of getting the SSC membership, shall see if it is worth getting if we are going like 3 times a week, together with an occasion swim… hopefully we can see the fruit of our efforts…

(^^,)v

Results: VALENCIA 1 CHELSEA 2

Extract from TNP 04 October 2007
Chelsea's 2-1 Champions League victory over Valencia showed the team was back on track after a traumatic spell following the departure of Jose Mourinho.

Finally Carvalho is back... I shall want to watch the replay of this match... cos middle of the night hard to wakie and see lah... Too bad my handsome daddy still out injured... Can't wait for him to get fit... Terry played even though he has an fractured cheekbone

I Hope IT LAST!!!

Match Report

My holiday bug is acting up again, but I have no money to go anyway liao… because I paid for my year end trip with my family members liao… haha, my sister will return me $1K only in Dec because that is the time where she will have her bonus…

Haha… going HK from 27 Dec to 30 Dec… my last trip there was in Nov 2005 with my poly friends, long time never go holiday with them liao… but no one initiate anything… the last time I ask them about Cambodia, then they okok but in the end can’t get leave then no one follow up liao… sort of like disappointed lah…

Some want to get married liao, some now got car to maintain, some got relationship so forget others liao… if you all know who I’m referring to then good lor… LoL… who ask me to be still single after so long… Somemore I love my travelling a lot…

I still have a few places that I want to go before getting tied down by anyone… haha, or if my other half (next time) love travelling too…

Cambodia, maybe I can try initiate again bah, see if Mar / Apr 2008 got anybody interested lor…

London / Paris, Can see Stonehenge and Eiffel Tower, this one I’m desperately trying to save up for Dec 2008 while continuing going to other locations… Haha… because actually if this year I don’t go anywhere, I can afford to go, but now start from scratch again…

USA got Grand Canyon, erm, cos I got relatives there, but due to no driving licence, this one must wait for someone who can drive (like my cousin, Gina) can save up then we shall go visit our Aunty Li… maybe in 2009… LoL

Tibet also very pretty leh, but this one must find backpacking experience friends / relatives to go if we want to go cheaply… cos looking at tour packages, at least $2K+

Rome I also want to visit… Rich historical place, especially Vatican City… I’m not a Catholic, but I saw a travel program once that was introducing Rome….

Still got many more other places lah, eg. Taj Mahal India, Coloseum (not sure about the spelling, it is The Gladiator Arena) , but basically the above are the few priorities…

Recently there have been cases of frauds via phone calls that actually tell you that you have won the first prize in a lucky draw overseas. I have gotten the pre-fraud phone call.

I was at work then phone rang, Caller Name: Withheld

I answered the call thinking that might be my boss. The other party was a lady, asking whether can I speak Chinese.

她：小姐你好，我是XXX公司，我们要调查现在最受欢迎的手机。可以请问你现在用的是什么品牌的手机吗？

我：Sony Ericsson

她：好，那对您的手机还满意吗？

我：很好啊，我很喜欢。

她：那请问您的名字，好让我们可以有个记录。

我：Shuyi。

她：是Shuying 吗？好漂亮的名字。

她：好那 Shuying 可以请问你是学生吗？您的声音听起来很年轻。

Feel abit weird liao，how come will ask this kind of question，decided to lie first

我：对啊。

她：那你现在是在上课吧，不好意识。再次谢谢您给的意见。

我：不客气，拜拜。

Hehe, luckily I anyhow say I’m student, else sure to get another phone call informing me that I have won the first prize in a lucky draw and need to transfer some money (processing fee) to their account first before they would release the prize money to me.

But you can ask them to deduct from the prize money right, they also very clever… tell you that they need to verify whether your account is correct / active…

If you hesitate, they would ask you to visit this website and your name would appear there as one of the winners… but to create a fake website is very simple…

So please remember, NO FREE MEALS… many have already been conned, so I guess they might stop for awhile, but I think this type of scam has been very rampant overseas, I have watched Taiwan programs often (due to my mom) and regularly hear about those scam companies…

Last time, kena cheated $10 from a PRC couple, now nearly another one… haha…

Went to Wang Lee Hom’s Autograph Session yesterday… Went to the 户外广播 for YES933龙虎榜 first… Then at first decided not to queue for his autograph, just want to hear him sing Live… then realized might not even get a chance to re-enter… so decided to join the queue, but lady luck is shining on us…. We managed to get good view of Lee Hom AGAIN, and also obtained his Autograph…

He sang 3 songs, 落叶归根， 改变自己， 我们的歌... Wow, he is really good singing LIVE… Still as good as the last time I saw him at his concert, that’s like many years ago, think his first concert in Singapore bah, at Singapore Expo…

Hehe, some pictures… not very clear, because I so excited that I forgot to bring Camera there, so this is from a 2.0mega pixel HP Camera… But nevermind get to see Lee Hom upclose…

Went upstage for the autograph right, he was sitting very straight with his right hand on his thigh, then think he has to sign around 2000 autographs yesterday… Haha…

When he finished signing his signature for your album, he will look up at you and give a sincere smile… Awwwww…. So sweet… Haha

LEE HOM IS REALLY VERY 帅 !!!