26.10.07
  Are You A Good Flirt
Did a quiz, and I turned out to be...

Flirt-Shy
Your coyness around the male species could be misinterpreted as aloofness, so you've got to learn to conquer it and work on your flirting skills. Flirting is in fact one of the best ways to signal your interest in making friends with the opposite sex. If you close yourself off in social interactions, you'll be missing out on opportunities of finding your Mr. Right.

First ask yourself why you avoid flirting: Maybe you don't feel attractive or confident enough. Or perhaps you don't feel comfortable with your sensuality. But the only way you'll overcome your anxiety when socializing with the guys is to practice, practice, practice. Start by learning a few simple flirting tactics. One surefire technique is to work your smile: Immediately you'll appear less intimidating. Another easy way to open up is to start dishing out sincere compliments, like "Cool jacket" or "You have a really nice smile". Practice a little more, and you'll realize how fun it can be.

So I read on on suggestions on How To Flirt Like A Natural

* 1. Work on your self-confidence.
Flirting is an art requiring confidence. If you're not exactly comfortable in your own skin, start working on your self-confidence: Who's going to believe you're sexy if you don't believe it?

* 2. Keep smiling!
Let the smile come forth naturally. Don't manufacture one because others can tell.

* 3. Catch His Eye.
Once you've identified that cute guy, catch his eye and smile. Walk up to him until about an arm's length distance away, then start a conversation. Don't just talk away, make sure he's looking at you and is aware of your presence.

* 4. Give Compliments.
Compliment him on his clothes, or sense of humor. Saying "Hey, you've got a great jacket, where did you buy it?" makes him think that you are noticing things about him, and your attention is flattering.

* 5. Keep Your Body Language Open.
Look at him when talking but don't stare. When you're telling an anecdote, lightly touch his arm when you're about to reveal the climax of the story, as if you're making a point. Like "And you know what happened after that?" Touch the arm. "He actually flew to London to meet her!"

* 6. Listen With Interest.
When he's talking, listen with interest. Sound like you're paying attention by adding "Hmmm..." or "Yeah..." at appropriate intervals and tilt your head to the side slightly.

* 7. Be Positive & Engaging.
Keep your conversation light-hearted and humorous. Don't gossip negative stuff about a mutual friend. You don't want him to think you're a big blabbermouth.

* 8. Make Your Move.
When the conversation is coming to an end, and you decide you'll like to stay in touch, don't be afraid to leave your number with him. In fact, guys will be more responsive because they will think you are one hot chick who's available!

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